Ok some of you know that I recently moved to NYC from Canada to be with Tommy. Well I left some very good friends behind. Some of them are keeping in touch and even coming all the way to NYC for our wedding (two friends with their husbands).
But I haven't heard from two of them for MONTHS. I know it may seem obvious to just forget about them but I am hurt. They both promised to keep in touch and they haven't. One of them I haven't heard from AT ALL. She has a one-year old and is back at school part-time. But she promised to email me. I don't have her email address to contcat her. (I always called her).
The other emailed me very quick emails with only a question or two and nothing special. And I think it was ALWAYS me who event sent the emails and she just replied. So I stopped emailing her to see if she'd take the initiative. Did she? NOPE!
Also I should mention that these two girls are friends with the ex and they're husbands are best friends with the ex. I know it's probably just best to forget about them as I never want to hear about the ex or have him get ANY info about me.
Distance should not be a factor as some of my closest friends live in: Toronto (Ontario), Calgary (Alberta), and Fredericton (New Brunswick) and the other two in Ottawa (Ontario). Emails are super easy and we've all stayed super close even though none of us have lived in the same city for ages!!! One lived in Ireland for a few years and one lived in Taiwan for a year!!! Now, I'm just rambling.... he he
Am I silly to be kinda sad? Because I am. I know I'll go back to Ottawa at some point for a vist and I obviously won't bother letting them know about it but what if I ever run into them?
Something else really bugs me about this situation. They know that I'm going to get married in June and the fact that they're not going to acknowledge my wedding AT ALL is really hurtful. I went to one of their weddings.
Maybe out of sight -- out of mind really is true?!
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I went to one of their weddings.
