Yes, the planning was fun and the day was wonderful and I'll never forget it. But you know, the only thing that matters is that you walk down that aisle and get married. Nothing else really matters. I mean they matter, but you know? they're just details. What will people really remember? The love you share, having a good time with friends and family. Are they likely to remember tablecloths and flowers and what they ate? Not too likely. Expect things to go wrong - and keep a cool head and do your best, but the day of - que sera! One thing that worked with both of my mothers - they were allowed to give me advice, which I promised to consider and be open to, but so long as they respected my decision without arguing about it. It was a good deal.
-------------------- Formerly HanSolo. IBS, OCD, Bipolar, PTSD times 3.
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Re: Yeah- what Sinead said... but also from an old married gal...
