To wonder why one is not "normal" is to make a comparison to someone else. We can't be normal if we don't compare ourself to others. What we have to realize is we are ourselves, we are unique, and we don't always act like everyone else (which would make us "normal").
As far as letting things get to us, some of us have that fault...I am no exception. I used to worry constantly about everything. Is someone in my family mad at me, am I going to do bad on a test, am I going to have problems at work? I still do this to a degree, but have realized worrying is wasted energy. Why do I worry? Why would I be hard on myself if I did bad on that test? Why can't I be like my brother who is bothered by nothing? Because I am me,not him (or anyone else for that matter).
I don't know if any of this helps, sometimes I feel like I type aimlessly. There I go worrying again:) Rest assured you are not alone. Remember, too, we are all allowed to have a bad day:). I hope you feel better soon
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