Irritable Bowel Syndrome Message Boards | male's point of view isn't always bad.....it may help!! tommy this ones for you...

tommy...
first i feel bad that there was such a craziness over my post...but i want to say...having male points of view helps me...because alot of times us women can jump the gun..or read something a man would read different, thats what makes men and women different...well along with other stuff..lol..

i myself wasn't discusted by it all as much as i felt betrayed by my fiance...he said howard sterne had mentioned the website, so he checked it out...as a woman, i think howard sterne is funny...because he pushes the envolope..and the adults on his show make their own desicions (i wont watch the show however...lol...not with mike anyway) i'm hoping that whole thing doesn't get blown out like crazy, my point to the whole thing is....

I honestly would appreciate a male's prespective on things my fiance does sometimes, i got mad at him one time because his sister-in-law (sorta...brother-in-law's sister..so not really anything to mike) got a boob job, and mike kept talking about it, one reason i think is because she is only like 20..and that her boyfriend's mom bought them for her...really whacky....anyway...i'm not blessed by any means in that area....(but they run in my family..where the heck was i??) anyway...i was upset, because he was talking about it, and i talked to a co-worker, who was a guy about it, and he totally gave me a different prepective, and totallly changed my attitude on how i precieved it...i even tried to argue with my co-worker about it..and he was like "lyndsey, you are beautiful, and he is lucky to have you, he's saying it, because it's on his mind, and i'm sure doensn't care about her, just the topic is crazy" so i said "but i don't have them!" he goes "he is totally crazy about you, so don't worry, guys don't think of it like the way you women do" and i stopped and thought about it...and thought i may be blowing out of porportion..and indeed i may have been...because when mike came into see me one time at work (i work a red robin) the guy i was talking to came up to me and said "oh my god, that guy hella wants you, thats crazy" i said "thats my boyfriend" so i was glad he was picking that up!! haha...

ok..so tommy..and any other guys...and gals, i appreciate any help for ibs, not for ibs....that betters us..not angers us, etc...i find the knowlege here helpful, and adds wisdom for me

anyway, again, i am sorry for the anger that everyone had. i was upset, but obviously hit a hot button for alot of people!! so sorry about that!!

take care guys and gals!!!!

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