Oh Sweetie, why is he being such a jerk about it? If he knew this isn't your thing, why would he give it to you in the first place? At least he did give you something you wanted, the dance lessons.
I guess in his defense, I can understand him wanting to try something different but when you obviously didn't like it, he shouldn't be mad at YOU! Its awful that he is ruining your birthday and I think its ok to tell him so! I wished I lived closer, I'd take you out to lunch and we could do something silly like paint our toes or something! I don't have many friends close by either and it is hard. I'm so sorry. I hope your birthday gets better sweetie! Big, birthday hugs!!
-------------------- Taking it one day at a time.....