Reged: 07/10/04
Posts: 1176
Loc: Manhattan, New York
Thank you!!! You see, even though its not my cup of tea at all, - like the whole getting changed into the outfit and walking out into the room to him would make me CRINGE! I much prefer spicing up sex life with abstaining for a number of days (like during my period) and hence increasing our spiritual connection and THEN returning to our physical life. This whole fantasising thing is just not really me. I mean, of course I have fantasisies, but to get all dressed up, I would feel so awkward and embarrassed and silly. So I wanted to laugh about it with him - he has a friend that is into this kind of thing so I wish he could have laughed about it and said - oh well, we'll give it to so-and-so - but he has this HUGE PRIDE thing (his whole family do) and he took it so seriously. Sigh. Happy Birthday to me. Thanks for your input. This is not judgement on people that DO dress up, good for them, its just not me at all.
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