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Lisa! (and any other working mom)
      07/13/05 08:03 PM
jen1013

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I didn't mean to imply you were a bad person -- OR any other working mother. I know lots of mothers work, whether because they want to or because they have to, and their kids grow up just fine. And there are lots of mothers who stay at home and whose kids are real terrors!

I guess my situation is a little different from most people, too. My job requires long hours plus I have an hour-long commute. So, I leave around 6:45 a.m. and on the days when I leave work at a decent time I get home around 7:00 p.m. There are days when it's 7:30, or 8:00, or 9:00. I cannot imagine being able to find time to raise a kid in that! I'll be lucky if I manage to even feed him something other than cold cereal for dinner.

The decision whether or not to work is a very personal one, and I am still struggling over it. If it were as easy as "you're a bad person if you work", then obviously I wouldn't have felt the need to post in the first place. I want the input of working moms just as much as the stay-at-home moms -- and I hope that others aren't discouraged from weighing in. I am glad you did speak up.


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* Making babies ... and then staying home with them!
jen1013
07/12/05 06:25 PM
* Re: Making babies ... and then staying home with them!
jonesgirl
07/18/05 08:48 PM
* Tough decisions!
Kree
07/14/05 07:01 AM
* Kree
jen1013
07/15/05 06:27 PM
* Re: Making babies ... and then staying home with them!
AmandaPanda, J.D.
07/13/05 07:50 AM
* Re: Making babies ... and then staying home with them!
jen1013
07/13/05 07:45 PM
* Re: Making babies ... and then staying home with them!
AmandaPanda, J.D.
07/14/05 06:19 AM
* Amanda
jen1013
07/15/05 10:53 AM
* Jen
AmandaPanda, J.D.
07/15/05 11:42 AM
* pay no attention to the man behind the curtain
jen1013
07/15/05 06:00 PM
* Wait---you nag too??
epa_ginger
07/15/05 11:03 AM
* I am kind of a traditional nagger
jen1013
07/15/05 11:55 AM
* Re: Wait---you nag too??
Lana_Marie
07/15/05 11:28 AM
* See, I don't like the word "nag..."
chinagrl
07/15/05 11:23 AM
* Wow - all men really ARE the same... :)
Cara4503
07/15/05 11:37 AM
* I guess so!!
epa_ginger
07/15/05 01:44 PM
* Re: I guess so!!
AmandaPanda, J.D.
07/15/05 02:09 PM
* Re: I guess so!!
epa_ginger
07/15/05 02:33 PM
* Hah!
epa_ginger
07/15/05 11:26 AM
* Re: Making babies ... and then staying home with them!
michele
07/14/05 07:17 AM
* Michele
BL
07/14/05 07:19 PM
* oh my michele!!
Dr. Spice Yamin
07/14/05 07:50 AM
* Re: oh my michele!!
michele
07/14/05 08:03 AM
* Re: oh my michele!!

07/14/05 08:12 AM
* Re: Aw, thanks Brittany!
michele
07/14/05 08:21 AM
* Re: oh my michele!!
Dr. Spice Yamin
07/14/05 08:09 AM
* ash ...
AmandaPanda, J.D.
07/14/05 08:11 AM
* Whoa!!
epa_ginger
07/14/05 07:25 AM
* Re: Whoa!!
michele
07/14/05 07:52 AM
* Sing it, Sister!
epa_ginger
07/14/05 08:04 AM
* Re: Sing it, Sister!
michele
07/14/05 08:11 AM
* Parallel childhoods?!
epa_ginger
07/14/05 08:17 AM
* Re: Parallel childhoods?!
michele
07/14/05 08:25 AM
* Re: Sing it, Sister!
Portageegal
07/14/05 08:08 AM
* by the way ...
AmandaPanda, J.D.
07/14/05 07:44 AM
* Re: by the way ...
AmandaPanda, J.D.
07/14/05 10:27 AM
* Re: by the way ...
chinagrl
07/14/05 07:46 AM
* Re: by the way ...
Portageegal
07/14/05 07:50 AM
* Ha ha!!
epa_ginger
07/14/05 07:49 AM
* Re: Don't forget frozen pot pies!!!
michele
07/14/05 08:17 AM
* Re: Don't forget frozen pot pies!!!
Portageegal
07/14/05 08:24 AM
* I am cracking UP!!!
epa_ginger
07/14/05 08:21 AM
* Re:I almost forgot about the fish sticks!!!!
michele
07/14/05 08:30 AM
* Jiffy mixes
jen1013
07/15/05 11:36 AM
* Plan For the Furture
Portageegal
07/14/05 08:54 AM
* Re: Making babies ... and then staying home with them!
epa_ginger
07/14/05 07:05 AM
* Re: Making babies ... and then staying home with them!
AmandaPanda, J.D.
07/14/05 07:38 AM
* Well, if you're crazy, I'm crazy!
epa_ginger
07/14/05 07:46 AM
* Re: Well, if you're crazy, I'm crazy!
chinagrl
07/14/05 07:47 AM
* Re: Making babies ... and then staying home with them!
chinagrl
07/14/05 07:45 AM
* Re: Making babies ... and then staying home with them!
AmandaPanda, J.D.
07/14/05 07:56 AM
* I do that too!
Linz
07/14/05 11:53 AM
* Me, too....
epa_ginger
07/14/05 11:59 AM
* Re: Me, too....
AmandaPanda, J.D.
07/14/05 01:07 PM
* Wow...
Cara4503
07/14/05 06:49 AM
* Maybe this is more common than we think..

07/14/05 07:09 AM
* Could you plan my life for me too??
epa_ginger
07/14/05 07:19 AM
* Re: Could you plan my life for me too??

07/14/05 07:31 AM
* You're so cool!!
epa_ginger
07/14/05 07:55 AM
* Re: You're so cool!!

07/14/05 08:02 AM
* Just my two cents
Lana_Marie
07/14/05 07:01 AM
* My opinion, and Lana,
_Willow
07/16/05 07:11 PM
* Lana - was this for me??
Cara4503
07/14/05 09:24 AM
* Re: Wow Brittany
michele
07/14/05 08:39 AM
* Re: Wow Brittany

07/14/05 08:43 AM
* Re: Making babies ... and then staying home with them!
chinagrl
07/13/05 08:50 PM
* Re: Making babies ... and then staying home with them!
Portageegal
07/13/05 07:11 AM
* Compelled to post a reply to this one...
bamagirl
07/13/05 05:55 AM
* I didn't know you homeschool too!!! cool... nt
ecmmbm
07/13/05 06:56 AM
* Re: I didn't know you homeschool too!!! cool..
bamagirl
07/13/05 07:40 AM
* I feel for you...
ecmmbm
07/13/05 10:24 AM
* Re: I feel for you...
bamagirl
07/13/05 10:40 AM
* Take it one step at a time...
ecmmbm
07/12/05 06:48 PM
* My worry too...
epa_ginger
07/12/05 06:40 PM
* Re: Making babies ... and then staying home with them!
Cara4503
07/12/05 06:33 PM
* Good point Cara!
Linz
07/13/05 12:18 AM
* It's a little easier for me to keep up....
Cara4503
07/13/05 05:02 AM
* Cara
jen1013
07/13/05 08:11 PM
* Re: Cara
Cara4503
07/14/05 05:43 AM
* Re: Cara
jen1013
07/15/05 11:47 AM
* Re: Cara
Cara4503
07/15/05 02:10 PM
* Re: Cara
jen1013
07/15/05 06:40 PM
* Re: Cara
Cara4503
07/16/05 05:39 AM
* Re: Cara
jen1013
07/16/05 08:08 AM
* Re: Cara
Cara4503
07/16/05 01:53 PM
* Ahh, Cara.....
BL
07/13/05 06:58 AM
* Re: Kids are more important than careers
michele
07/13/05 09:49 AM
* This is a tricky issue!
chinagrl
07/13/05 09:53 AM
* Re: This is a tricky issue!
LittleLisa
07/13/05 10:36 AM
* Lisa! (and any other working mom)
jen1013
07/13/05 08:03 PM
* Re: No offense taken, really!
LittleLisa
07/14/05 11:47 AM
* Re: No offense taken, really!
AmandaPanda, J.D.
07/14/05 01:11 PM
* You're not bad!!
epa_ginger
07/13/05 11:50 AM
* Re:Aww thanks ginger!
LittleLisa
07/13/05 02:18 PM
* Re: Very Good Point!!!!
michele
07/13/05 09:59 AM

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