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Re: Does everybody hate their mother-in-laws?       12/27/04 07:51 PM Edit Reply Quote Dr. Spice Yamin Reged: 04/15/04 Posts: 3286 Loc: Maryland Hi TeeCee, My situation wasn't exactly with a mother in law, but it was with a very serious boyfriend that I had for many years in highschool and the beginning of college. While I didn't HATE his mother, alot of the time I was very uncomfortable around her. She tended to be very jealous of the time we spent together and the fact that her son had found love with another woman besides herself. This made me avoid her like the plague because she made it really uncomfortable for me to be around her. I'm not sure if it was because it was her oldest son, and I know mothers and sons hold a special bond etc. (well i don't know- but thats what I heard) but it was hard. One specific example was one day my ex boyfriends mother had asked to go out for chinese food and he couldn't because he had to study alot. The next afternoon for lunch me and my ex ended up going out for chinese food, and unfortunately his mother found out. When she asked what we did when we came home and we told her thinking nothing of it. She ended up crying in front of me- asking him why he would take me when he wouldn't take her the night before. I mean, you can imagine how crappy I felt standing there while his mother cried because of me. It sucked. but at the same time, I mean we were in love so I didn't really understand why she was so upset. Anyways, haha long story short, I know personally I tried to continue to make a relationship with her no matter how uncomfortable I was. It was obvious that she was attached to her son deeply, so it was important for me to also have a relationship with her to ever have her approval. Hopefully your DIL will come around and try to make amends. good luck and i'll cross my fingers for you. -------------------- Print     Remind Me     Notify Moderator

Entire thread Does everybody hate their mothers-in-law? MissS 12/27/04 08:27 AM Re: Does everybody hate their mothers-in-law? chinagrl 01/03/05 11:32 AM Terri BL 01/03/05 05:52 AM Re: Does everybody hate their mothers-in-law? Laura107 01/03/05 12:21 AM Re: Does everybody hate their mothers-in-law? tc2004 12/28/04 06:49 AM thanks tc2004 MissS 12/28/04 08:17 AM Re: thanks tc2004 tc2004 12/29/04 06:51 AM Re: I don't really "hate" my mil, though... gigi 12/28/04 06:49 AM Re: Does everybody hate their mother-in-laws? AmandaPanda, J.D. 12/27/04 09:11 PM Panda MissS 12/27/04 10:39 PM Re: Does everybody hate their mother-in-laws? daliatree 12/27/04 08:49 PM I don't hate my mil daliatree 12/27/04 08:53 PM dalia MissS 12/27/04 10:19 PM This from a man who had harsh words with his mother, tonight... RDumas 12/27/04 08:23 PM Re: This from a man who had harsh words from with his mother, tonight... MissS 12/27/04 08:31 PM A wing and a prayer. RDumas 12/27/04 08:34 PM Re: Does everybody hate their mother-in-laws? Dr. Spice Yamin 12/27/04 07:51 PM Not Everybody! Bevvy 12/27/04 07:49 PM Bevrs MissS 12/27/04 08:10 PM Whoa... atomic rose 12/27/04 03:42 PM Casey MissS 12/27/04 07:42 PM Terri, this has me puzzled..... barbie 12/27/04 01:42 PM Barbie MissS 12/27/04 07:32 PM Re: Dear Terri, andanyone who may be suffering from toxic family members.. gigi 12/27/04 01:36 PM Gayla MissS 12/27/04 07:12 PM Gayla MissS 12/27/04 07:10 PM MIL and I get along great- its my mom... khyricat 12/27/04 12:31 PM khyricat , i'm so glad to hear of your great relationship! nt MissS 12/27/04 06:59 PM Re: Does everybody hate their mother-in-laws? Brian_NY 12/27/04 12:16 PM Brian MissS 12/27/04 06:57 PM Re: Does everybody hate their mother-in-laws? bamagirl 12/27/04 10:15 AM bamagirl, glad to hear of your great relationship. It's encouraging. nt MissS 12/27/04 06:50 PM "Mom" and I are best friends ecmmbm 12/27/04 09:55 AM Michelle MissS 12/27/04 06:47 PM Re: Does everybody hate their mother-in-laws? Jennifer Rose 12/27/04 09:37 AM Re:TeeCee gigi 12/27/04 09:10 PM Gayla MissS 12/27/04 10:27 PM Re: TeeCee. Same here! -nt- gigi 12/28/04 06:37 AM Thanks for your support Jennifer, that's so nice! nt MissS 12/27/04 06:46 PM Re: Does everybody hate their mother-in-laws? Augie 12/27/04 09:24 AM Thanks, Beth. I appreciate your thoughts! nt MissS 12/27/04 06:44 PM Re: Does everybody hate their mother-in-laws? Sheri01 12/27/04 08:37 AM Re: Does everybody hate their mother-in-laws? MissS 12/27/04 08:44 AM Re: Does everybody hate their mother-in-laws? Sheri01 12/27/04 09:05 AM Sheri MissS 12/27/04 06:43 PM Re: I agree with Sherri... gigi 12/27/04 01:50 PM

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