I totally appreciate that approach, and in an ideal situation, that may very well work. He's been complaining for weeks though that he wishes he had cancer and is not enjoying his life. If I were at the end of my rope as he appears to be, I just think I would entertain making some actual CHANGES in my lifestyle, not just complaining about it and wondering why I still feel awful when I haven't tried absolutely EVERYTHING I can think of to get to the root of the problem. Obviously exercise is important, but if the type of exercise/pastime you are doing is possibly making you sicker, wouldn't you explore life without it for a while?
-------------------- Belinda
IBS-A since 1986 (age 8)
Recently realized I could do
something about it!