All Boards >> The Living Room

View all threads Posts     Flat     Threaded

Re: I'm back, and in major life crisis.
      05/18/06 04:24 PM
lj

Reged: 09/24/04
Posts: 179


Oh Shannon,

I do know how you are feeling. I'm so sorry. I have been exactly where you are (except there was another woman). On Feb. 8th, 1996 my ex told me he was out of love and was leaving me. On Feb. 9th he left. It was OK with me from a "love" standpoint because I didn't love him anymore either, but it was scary because like you, I had a young child ( my son had just turned 3). It bites when some one just decides to dispense of their spouse, doesn't it? Even if you are already feeling estranged, it hurts real bad when your spouse just says it out loud.

A word about amicable divorces. Few stay that way. Wise words from Sand, please see an attorney ASAP. Before my husband even told me he was leaving, he had already planned to take custody of our son and move out of state with him. This never actually happened , but it was a good thing that I sought top-notch representation for myself and my son's sake, because it did get ugly.

On a better note, this time of my life turned out to be absolutely exhilerating! After I got used to the fact that he was gone, I got real happy and eventually met some one else. It was a great time in my life in many ways.

Hang in there Shannon, you are such a positive person and you really are young and you have so much ahead of you!

Laura

Print     Remind Me     Notify Moderator    

Entire thread
* I'm back, and in major life crisis.
_Willow
05/17/06 03:09 PM
* Re: I'm back, and in major life crisis.
Janey
05/18/06 04:36 PM
* Re: I'm back, and in major life crisis.

05/18/06 04:28 PM
* Re: I'm back, and in major life crisis.
lj
05/18/06 04:24 PM
* Re: I'm back, and in major life crisis.
jen1013
05/18/06 03:56 PM
* Re: I'm back, and in major life crisis.
Sand
05/18/06 02:27 PM
* Re: I'm back, and in major life crisis.
cailin
05/18/06 03:27 PM
* Shannon
Sara-Sage
05/18/06 02:10 PM
* I think you're totally right.
_Willow
05/19/06 11:06 AM
* Re: I think you're totally right.
Sara-Sage
05/19/06 11:24 AM
* I'm so sorry Shannon. My heart aches for you & your daughter. I will be praying. - nt
karyash
05/18/06 12:04 PM
* Re: I'm back, and in major life crisis.
lalala
05/18/06 09:35 AM
* Hugs and love to you. Nothing for him.
Nelly
05/18/06 09:28 AM
* Nelly,
_Willow
05/19/06 10:58 AM
* Nelly
Sara-Sage
05/18/06 02:13 PM
* No way!!!
Sara-Sage
05/18/06 09:27 AM
* Umm...about my desire for what happens...
_Willow
05/18/06 12:36 PM
* Re: Umm...about my desire for what happens...
Yoda (formerly Hans)
05/18/06 01:06 PM
* Midlife crisis
_Willow
05/19/06 11:13 AM
* Re: Umm...about my desire for what happens...
nomorepooch
05/18/06 01:25 PM
* No words, just many prayers. I'm so sorry!! This is heartbreaking! -nt-
bamagirl
05/18/06 07:53 AM
* Re: I'm back, and in major life crisis.
epa_ginger
05/18/06 06:19 AM
* Re: I'm back, and in major life crisis.
michele
05/18/06 07:40 AM
* Whoo, you have seen a lot
_Willow
05/18/06 12:32 PM
* Re: I'm back, and in major life crisis.
Snorkie
05/18/06 05:21 AM
* Re: I'm back, and in major life crisis.
TommyNY
05/18/06 03:15 AM
* Oh Shannon...
Vicam
05/18/06 12:44 AM
* Steel Magnolias
hohoyumyum
05/17/06 11:34 PM
* LOL my little brother last night
_Willow
05/18/06 12:26 PM
* Sounds like a good brother. -nt
hohoyumyum
05/18/06 04:12 PM
* Re: I'm back, and in major life crisis.
Dr. Spice Yamin
05/17/06 08:57 PM
* Re: I'm back, and in major life crisis.
EvilCats
05/17/06 08:44 PM
* Sweetie, I'm so sorry - nt-
Toady
05/17/06 07:02 PM
* Re: I'm back, and in major life crisis.
Gracie
05/17/06 06:29 PM
* I agree with Gracie. -nt-
Double J
05/17/06 07:04 PM
* Re: I'm back, and in major life crisis.
Angela E.
05/17/06 06:00 PM
* Re: I'm back, and in major life crisis.
Snow for Sarala
05/17/06 06:13 PM
* Re: I'm back, and in major life crisis.
JLL24
05/17/06 05:50 PM
* Re: I'm back, and in major life crisis.
chinagrl
05/17/06 05:50 PM
* Re: I'm back, and in major life crisis.
Double J
05/17/06 05:17 PM
* Re: I'm back, and in major life crisis.(long!)
Flipada
05/17/06 05:12 PM
* I couldn't agree more
atomic rose
05/17/06 05:58 PM
* Oh no.......
ecmmbm
05/17/06 05:06 PM
* Oh no.......
nomorepooch
05/17/06 05:09 PM
* Oh shannon....
Natalie1985
05/17/06 05:03 PM
* Re: I'm back, and in major life crisis.
Blondie13
05/17/06 05:00 PM
* Re: I'm back, and in major life crisis.
Shell Marr
05/17/06 04:38 PM
* Re: I'm back, and in major life crisis.
Portageegal
05/17/06 04:34 PM
* Re: I'm back, and what a story to tell.
rn21666
05/17/06 03:28 PM

Extra information
0 registered and 1074 anonymous users are browsing this forum.

Moderator:  Heather 



Permissions
      You cannot post until you login
      You cannot reply until you login
      HTML is enabled
      UBBCode is enabled

Thread views: 20953

Jump to

| Privacy statement Help for IBS Home

*
UBB.threads™ 6.2


HelpForIBS.com BBB Business Review