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Umm...about my desire for what happens...
      05/18/06 12:36 PM
_Willow

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I am a child of divorce so I always thought it would happen to me too.

Having said that, I really thought we were complacent but happy, you know? There wasn't a big passionate flame but I thought it'd return. I don't know, maybe it still will. I'll let him be who he wants to be... (I've never ever pressured him to do anything he doesn't want to do, and I won't change that right now!!) and see if he misses it. I'm not saying it'll be easy but maybe he needs to see the other side of things to know how much he loves us. He does love me, and I love him DEARLY, but we haven't been able to priorotize ourselves, as my career is daytime and his is night time. We just don't have the ability to be together nearly as much as we'd like to be.

Actually we've been together more this week than in 3 months,lol.

I love him very deeply in a very peaceful companion way, as I think he does too, but I wonder if he thinks it always has to be a freaking burlesque show in the bedroom for things to be good. He'll be sorely mistaken if he believes that's how life works.

Anyhow, I heard whispers but as Oprah said,it was still a brick to the head that got my attention. And I'm very much not ready to let go, and still have hope.

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Keep on keepin' on...

Edited by Shannon :) (05/18/06 12:40 PM)

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