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*hands Nelly a paddle*       08/25/05 03:13 PM Edit Reply Quote Stephie Reged: 03/10/04 Posts: 2696 Loc: Vancouver, Canada Hey, It looks like you and I are in the same boat... albeit a really cr@ppy boat, with no paddle! I know exactly what you are going through, as I am almost there too with Adrian. I am so sorry that you are having such a rough time. It's not just the bike thing, but the way that he is dealing with the whole thing sounds extremely childish and selfish, in my opinion. I don't want to fuel the fire or anything, but if you are looking for confirmation that you have every right to be totally upset - here it is! I really do understand where you are coming from, Adrian used to ride a bike in England. He had a big wipe out and could have been killed - he still has some scars from sliding along the pavement on his hands and stuff. Now he wants to get a bike "as soon as we have enough money". Uh, no.. as soon as you have a new girlfriend, more like! I said that just what you said, that I will be up at night worrying he HAS killed himself this time in a wipe out or something. He wants to be a cop, and I said that will give me enough to worry about! They just don't seem to understand, though. It's like that 'staying up at night, wondering and worrying' chip isn't in guys' brains (how totally unfair, by the way!). It's like they see it as a choice, "So don't worry".. like it's that easy! I don't know what to suggest exactly.. I mean, maybe some time apart might smarten him up a bit, but it's so hard to predict with guys! It seems awfully foolish to be jealous of your girlfriend going away on a fab holiday, and then having your own good time by buying a bike and pissing her off and then walking around like a big man about it. But then, a lot of things men do I find just baffling. (Not all men!). I really hope that you guys can work it out, couples counselling doesn't sound like a bad idea at all. Maybe if someone else tells him with professional lingo that he needs to smarten up, he'll be able to hear it. Good luck, Nelly! **hugs** --Steph -------------------- ~~I'm not crazy, I'm just a little unwell-I know right now you can't tell~~Matchbox 20 IBS-D,pain. Print     Remind Me     Notify Moderator

Entire thread Nelly *DELETED* Jeano 08/24/05 04:17 PM THANKS EVERYONE Nelly 08/26/05 01:26 PM Re: THANKS EVERYONE thepurplelollie 08/28/05 04:26 AM Re: Nelly Yoda (formerly Hans) 08/25/05 04:29 PM *hands Nelly a paddle* Stephie 08/25/05 03:13 PM Re: *hands Nelly a paddle* lalala 08/25/05 11:19 PM LOL Maria!Maria! cailin 08/26/05 01:12 AM Nelly, you've got mail n-t Snow for Sarala 08/25/05 09:45 AM Re: Nelly TommyNY 08/25/05 08:40 AM Tommy Nelly 08/25/05 08:46 AM Re: Nelly Sara-Sage 08/25/05 08:44 AM Don't tempt me!! LOL! :) -nt- Nelly 08/25/05 09:18 AM DO IT!! DO IT!!! Come to NY! -nt- TommyNY 08/25/05 10:11 AM You are so right!! Nelly 08/24/05 04:21 PM this sounds so familiar ChristineM 08/24/05 05:28 PM UGH I think I might have screwed up Nelly 08/25/05 07:53 AM Nelly! Sheri01 08/26/05 09:24 AM My 2Cents..... barbie 08/25/05 03:20 PM Jumping in here BL 08/25/05 02:59 PM Re: Yeah! What BL said! -nt- Yoda (formerly Hans) 08/25/05 04:20 PM Re: UGH I think I might have screwed up lalala 08/25/05 10:17 AM Poor Nelly cailin 08/25/05 11:14 AM ouch... ChristineM 08/25/05 09:35 AM Well, if you are overreacting.... epa_ginger 08/25/05 08:09 AM *HUGS* melitami 08/25/05 08:06 AM Re: UGH I think I might have screwed up Dr. Spice Yamin 08/25/05 08:03 AM God, Ashley, I can't stop crying about it Nelly 08/25/05 08:12 AM Re: God, Ashley, I can't stop crying about it Sara-Sage 08/25/05 08:20 AM Midlife crisis Nelly 08/25/05 08:24 AM Re: Midlife crisis Sara-Sage 08/25/05 08:31 AM Re: Midlife crisis Nelly 08/25/05 08:38 AM Re: Midlife crisis Sara-Sage 08/25/05 08:39 AM Counceling Nelly 08/25/05 08:48 AM Re: Counceling Sara-Sage 08/25/05 08:56 AM Don't know Nelly 08/25/05 09:06 AM Re: Don't know Sara-Sage 08/25/05 09:59 AM when was he planning on telling you about the bike?!? -nt- Dr. Spice Yamin 08/25/05 09:50 AM Re: Don't know Portageegal 08/25/05 09:32 AM Re: Don't know Nelly 08/25/05 09:35 AM Re: God, Ashley, I can't stop crying about it Dr. Spice Yamin 08/25/05 08:19 AM He saw my tears last night :( Nelly 08/25/05 08:28 AM Re: God, Ashley, I can't stop crying about it epa_ginger 08/25/05 08:16 AM Tough love is tough ON ME Nelly 08/25/05 08:21 AM Re: Tough love is tough ON ME epa_ginger 08/25/05 09:00 AM Thank you for the support!! Nelly 08/25/05 09:12 AM *AS MANY HUGS AS YOU CAN STAND* melitami 08/25/05 08:27 AM Re: *AS MANY HUGS AS YOU CAN STAND* Nelly 08/25/05 08:30 AM Re: Tough love is tough ON ME Sara-Sage 08/25/05 08:23 AM Re: Tough love is tough ON ME Nelly 08/25/05 08:33 AM Re: Tough love is tough ON ME Sara-Sage 08/25/05 08:38 AM Yes, eviction notice Nelly 08/25/05 08:53 AM Re: Yes, eviction notice Sara-Sage 08/25/05 08:57 AM Re: Yes, eviction notice Nelly 08/25/05 09:17 AM Re: Yes, eviction notice Sara-Sage 08/25/05 10:02 AM {{{{{{BIG gentle HUGS}}}}}} Linz 08/26/05 05:10 AM Nelly *DELETED* Jeano 08/24/05 04:41 PM Re: Nelly michele 08/25/05 08:33 AM Thanks, Michele Nelly 08/25/05 08:41 AM

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