Reged: 11/11/04
Posts: 374
Loc: Wellington, New Zealand
I'm so glad your therapist told you that. You do get to have opinions and you're totally entitled to make them known!
I think the writing a letter sounds like a great idea. You already know what you're going to say.... so write it out! Or even better type it! You don't have to send it once you're done, at least until you're ready to... but writing it or printing it out is one step further towards expressing yourself to this guy (who does sound a bit creepy).
Kia kaha, Ruchie! (that's Maori for 'stand strong')