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Re: oh my michele!!       07/14/05 08:03 AM Edit Reply Quote michele Reged: 06/02/03 Posts: 6886 Loc: southeastern michigan Oh no, it was totally unexpected. He worked as the night manager at Red Lobster in Benton Harbor. Benton Harbor is a nasty place, highest crime rate per person in the state of Mi. We lived in the next town over, St. Joseph. Anyways, I had just moved out and he just moved in with his fluzy of a girlfriend (yeah, I'm still a bit bitter ) as she was pregnant with his kid. I was told when he didn't come home, she drove to the restraunt to check on him as she couldn't get anyone to answer the phone. His car was in the parking lot but the doors were locked. She called the police and he was found stabed to death in the office. I still have nightmares and can't watch any movies with stabbings or anything like that in it. They caught the guy, he was a crack addict who worked in the kitchen. Chip (my ex-husband) had loaned him some money earlier in the night and this guy came back later looking for another handout. When Chip refused, he pulled a big knife from the kitchen and threaten him. Chip open the safe and gave him ALl the money but the guy still stabbed him, 36 times! Unfortunately, we don't have the death penalty in Mi. The guy was sentanced to life, which in Mi means 30 years. I still get and send christmas cards to his family. The funeral was hard as I had never been to a funeral. It was open casket and I've never been able to get the image of him laying in the casket out of my head. I made the mistake of touching him, he was cold and hard, I almost passed out. That was a long time ago and I think I've come to term with it, as best as one can. I'm no longer angry and just try to remember the good things about him and our relationship. -------------------- Taking it one day at a time..... Print     Remind Me     Notify Moderator

Entire thread Making babies ... and then staying home with them! jen1013 07/12/05 06:25 PM Re: Making babies ... and then staying home with them! jonesgirl 07/18/05 08:48 PM Tough decisions! Kree 07/14/05 07:01 AM Kree jen1013 07/15/05 06:27 PM Re: Making babies ... and then staying home with them! AmandaPanda, J.D. 07/13/05 07:50 AM Re: Making babies ... and then staying home with them! jen1013 07/13/05 07:45 PM Re: Making babies ... and then staying home with them! AmandaPanda, J.D. 07/14/05 06:19 AM Amanda jen1013 07/15/05 10:53 AM Jen AmandaPanda, J.D. 07/15/05 11:42 AM pay no attention to the man behind the curtain jen1013 07/15/05 06:00 PM Wait---you nag too?? epa_ginger 07/15/05 11:03 AM I am kind of a traditional nagger jen1013 07/15/05 11:55 AM Re: Wait---you nag too?? Lana_Marie 07/15/05 11:28 AM See, I don't like the word "nag..." chinagrl 07/15/05 11:23 AM Wow - all men really ARE the same... :) Cara4503 07/15/05 11:37 AM I guess so!! epa_ginger 07/15/05 01:44 PM Re: I guess so!! AmandaPanda, J.D. 07/15/05 02:09 PM Re: I guess so!! epa_ginger 07/15/05 02:33 PM Hah! epa_ginger 07/15/05 11:26 AM Re: Making babies ... and then staying home with them! michele 07/14/05 07:17 AM Michele BL 07/14/05 07:19 PM oh my michele!! Dr. Spice Yamin 07/14/05 07:50 AM Re: oh my michele!! michele 07/14/05 08:03 AM Re: oh my michele!! 07/14/05 08:12 AM Re: Aw, thanks Brittany! michele 07/14/05 08:21 AM Re: oh my michele!! Dr. Spice Yamin 07/14/05 08:09 AM ash ... AmandaPanda, J.D. 07/14/05 08:11 AM Whoa!! epa_ginger 07/14/05 07:25 AM Re: Whoa!! michele 07/14/05 07:52 AM Sing it, Sister! epa_ginger 07/14/05 08:04 AM Re: Sing it, Sister! michele 07/14/05 08:11 AM Parallel childhoods?! epa_ginger 07/14/05 08:17 AM Re: Parallel childhoods?! michele 07/14/05 08:25 AM Re: Sing it, Sister! Portageegal 07/14/05 08:08 AM by the way ... AmandaPanda, J.D. 07/14/05 07:44 AM Re: by the way ... AmandaPanda, J.D. 07/14/05 10:27 AM Re: by the way ... chinagrl 07/14/05 07:46 AM Re: by the way ... Portageegal 07/14/05 07:50 AM Ha ha!! epa_ginger 07/14/05 07:49 AM Re: Don't forget frozen pot pies!!! michele 07/14/05 08:17 AM Re: Don't forget frozen pot pies!!! Portageegal 07/14/05 08:24 AM I am cracking UP!!! epa_ginger 07/14/05 08:21 AM Re:I almost forgot about the fish sticks!!!! michele 07/14/05 08:30 AM Jiffy mixes jen1013 07/15/05 11:36 AM Plan For the Furture Portageegal 07/14/05 08:54 AM Re: Making babies ... and then staying home with them! epa_ginger 07/14/05 07:05 AM Re: Making babies ... and then staying home with them! AmandaPanda, J.D. 07/14/05 07:38 AM Well, if you're crazy, I'm crazy! epa_ginger 07/14/05 07:46 AM Re: Well, if you're crazy, I'm crazy! chinagrl 07/14/05 07:47 AM Re: Making babies ... and then staying home with them! chinagrl 07/14/05 07:45 AM Re: Making babies ... and then staying home with them! AmandaPanda, J.D. 07/14/05 07:56 AM I do that too! Linz 07/14/05 11:53 AM Me, too.... epa_ginger 07/14/05 11:59 AM Re: Me, too.... AmandaPanda, J.D. 07/14/05 01:07 PM Wow... Cara4503 07/14/05 06:49 AM Maybe this is more common than we think.. 07/14/05 07:09 AM Could you plan my life for me too?? epa_ginger 07/14/05 07:19 AM Re: Could you plan my life for me too?? 07/14/05 07:31 AM You're so cool!! epa_ginger 07/14/05 07:55 AM Re: You're so cool!! 07/14/05 08:02 AM Just my two cents Lana_Marie 07/14/05 07:01 AM My opinion, and Lana, _Willow 07/16/05 07:11 PM Lana - was this for me?? Cara4503 07/14/05 09:24 AM Re: Wow Brittany michele 07/14/05 08:39 AM Re: Wow Brittany 07/14/05 08:43 AM Re: Making babies ... and then staying home with them! chinagrl 07/13/05 08:50 PM Re: Making babies ... and then staying home with them! Portageegal 07/13/05 07:11 AM Compelled to post a reply to this one... bamagirl 07/13/05 05:55 AM I didn't know you homeschool too!!! cool... nt ecmmbm 07/13/05 06:56 AM Re: I didn't know you homeschool too!!! cool.. bamagirl 07/13/05 07:40 AM I feel for you... ecmmbm 07/13/05 10:24 AM Re: I feel for you... bamagirl 07/13/05 10:40 AM Take it one step at a time... ecmmbm 07/12/05 06:48 PM My worry too... epa_ginger 07/12/05 06:40 PM Re: Making babies ... and then staying home with them! Cara4503 07/12/05 06:33 PM Good point Cara! Linz 07/13/05 12:18 AM It's a little easier for me to keep up.... Cara4503 07/13/05 05:02 AM Cara jen1013 07/13/05 08:11 PM Re: Cara Cara4503 07/14/05 05:43 AM Re: Cara jen1013 07/15/05 11:47 AM Re: Cara Cara4503 07/15/05 02:10 PM Re: Cara jen1013 07/15/05 06:40 PM Re: Cara Cara4503 07/16/05 05:39 AM Re: Cara jen1013 07/16/05 08:08 AM Re: Cara Cara4503 07/16/05 01:53 PM Ahh, Cara..... BL 07/13/05 06:58 AM Re: Kids are more important than careers michele 07/13/05 09:49 AM This is a tricky issue! chinagrl 07/13/05 09:53 AM Re: This is a tricky issue! LittleLisa 07/13/05 10:36 AM Lisa! (and any other working mom) jen1013 07/13/05 08:03 PM Re: No offense taken, really! LittleLisa 07/14/05 11:47 AM Re: No offense taken, really! AmandaPanda, J.D. 07/14/05 01:11 PM You're not bad!! epa_ginger 07/13/05 11:50 AM Re:Aww thanks ginger! LittleLisa 07/13/05 02:18 PM Re: Very Good Point!!!! michele 07/13/05 09:59 AM

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