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Re: I don't really "hate" my mil, though...
      12/28/04 06:49 AM
gigi

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she succeeds in making it very difficult to like her. I remember there were times when she could be very nice, she has come to my house in emergencies and helped. One time I poured boiling water down the my chest, (don't ask ) she ran water in the bathtub, had my fil bring ice, filled the tub and had me lay in it to stop the burning. She held my hand and talked to me as long as I was in pain to keep me calm. The next day she was back to being her old self.

If I spend my time hating her, I would have so many more health problems, not to mention a bitter attitude. That is not me, I want to be happy and enjoy the life I have been given. In turn, she can sit in her house by herself, she has turned her family away from her because of her hateful ways. That is sad, so very sad.

Right now, I have had a tension headache for about 2 weeks, I have to find a way to put my dil in her happy place and leave her there so that I can continue to heal my self, heart, mind, and soul. Thats the only way I can survive.

Any ideas?

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12/27/04 08:27 AM
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12/28/04 06:49 AM
* thanks tc2004
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* Re: thanks tc2004
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* Re: I don't really "hate" my mil, though...
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12/28/04 06:49 AM
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12/27/04 09:11 PM
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12/27/04 10:39 PM
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12/27/04 08:49 PM
* I don't hate my mil
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12/27/04 08:53 PM
* dalia
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12/27/04 10:19 PM
* This from a man who had harsh words with his mother, tonight...
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12/27/04 08:23 PM
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12/27/04 08:31 PM
* A wing and a prayer.
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12/27/04 08:34 PM
* Re: Does everybody hate their mother-in-laws?
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12/27/04 07:51 PM
* Not Everybody!
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12/27/04 08:10 PM
* Whoa...
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12/27/04 03:42 PM
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12/27/04 07:42 PM
* Terri, this has me puzzled.....
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12/27/04 01:42 PM
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12/27/04 07:32 PM
* Re: Dear Terri, andanyone who may be suffering from toxic family members..
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12/27/04 01:36 PM
* Gayla
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12/27/04 07:12 PM
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12/27/04 07:10 PM
* MIL and I get along great- its my mom...
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12/27/04 12:31 PM
* khyricat , i'm so glad to hear of your great relationship! nt
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12/27/04 06:59 PM
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12/27/04 12:16 PM
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12/27/04 06:57 PM
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12/27/04 10:15 AM
* bamagirl, glad to hear of your great relationship. It's encouraging. nt
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12/27/04 06:50 PM
* "Mom" and I are best friends
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12/27/04 09:55 AM
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12/27/04 06:47 PM
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12/27/04 09:37 AM
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12/27/04 09:10 PM
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MissS
12/27/04 10:27 PM
* Re: TeeCee. Same here! -nt-
gigi
12/28/04 06:37 AM
* Thanks for your support Jennifer, that's so nice! nt
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12/27/04 06:46 PM
* Re: Does everybody hate their mother-in-laws?
Augie
12/27/04 09:24 AM
* Thanks, Beth. I appreciate your thoughts! nt
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12/27/04 06:44 PM
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12/27/04 09:05 AM
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